cuffing season
[ KUFF-ing SEE-zun ] (cuff as in handcuff)
noun
Cuffing season is slang for the autumn and winter stretch when singles pair up for the cold months. To be cuffed is to be locked into a relationship.
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Can you still say it?
cuffing season is current: in active, unremarkable use. Safe to say right now.
What does cuffing season mean?
Cuffing season is the yearly shift in dating behaviour that arrives with cold weather. Summer favours being single. Winter favours having someone: the nights are long, the holidays are couple-shaped, and staying in beats going out. So every autumn, people who were happily unattached in July start looking for someone to be attached to by November.
The image inside the word is handcuffs. To be cuffed is to be locked to one person, and the season is when the locking happens. The implied expiry date is part of the joke: a cuffing season relationship classically lasts until spring, when the weather warms up and the calendar releases everyone back into circulation.
Dating apps lean into it, and the pattern is real enough that they report seasonal spikes in activity each autumn. The word carries a wink either way. Calling your relationship a cuffing season one admits it might be about the weather.
Where did cuffing season come from?
The verb came first. To cuff someone means to commit to them, to lock them down, and the image is handcuffs. Reference write-ups credit the verb to Black American speech. The honest caveat: the paper trail is thin. Wikipedia says it is "thought to" come from African American vernacular, not settled fact.
The compound followed. The earliest record still viewable is an Urban Dictionary entry from October 2010. The phrase spread online in the early 2010s and was mainstream enough for dictionary write-ups and dating-app press coverage by the middle of the decade.
Nobody is documented as its coiner. Like most season names, it was in the air before it was in print.
Sources: Cuffing season - Wikipedia · cuffing season | Dictionary.com · cuffing season - Cambridge Dictionary · Cuffing Season - Urban Dictionary (October 2010) · cuffing season - Wiktionary
How to use cuffing season in a sentence
it's october and he's suddenly texting back fast, classic cuffing season
they got together in november and broke up in april, a textbook cuffing season run
In a conversation
since when do you want a boyfriend
it's cuffing season, I don't make the rules
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Dating & Relationship Slang WordsQuestions about cuffing season
- What is cuffing season?
- The autumn and winter months when single people pair up for the cold season. Roughly October to February, with an implied expiry when spring arrives.
- What does cuffed mean?
- It means locked into a relationship. The image is handcuffs. The verb is credited to Black American speech, where to cuff someone is to lock them down.
- Why does cuffing season happen?
- Cold nights and couple-shaped holidays push the same way. People stay in more, and staying in is nicer with someone. Dating apps see more activity every autumn, so the data backs the joke.
- When does cuffing season end?
- By convention, in spring. The joke inside the term is that the relationship was for the winter, and warm weather releases everyone back into single life.
- Where does the term cuffing season come from?
- From the verb cuff, to commit to someone, credited to Black American speech. The earliest record of the full phrase you can still view is from 2010, and it went mainstream within a few years.